Upcoming Events - C’mon, Get Involved!!!
Glad to say, this weekend, we’ll be having another Pancake Breakfast. All low-cal we promise (was that a lightning bolt I just saw?) We’re all familiar with the ‘Coffee-Ands,’ the Pancake Breakfasts, the Pasta Nights, and in Lent, the Friday Evening Fish Bake, held right after the Stations of the Cross. Also in the works for March is a St. Patty’s Corned Beef & Cabbage Supper, scheduled for March 14th after 4:00 Mass and sponsored by our Knights of Columbus. You’ll be hearing more about this very soon, and there will be limited seating, so get your tickets early. Rumor has it that that magnificent Irish Grand Knight of ours, Steve Cavallo, will be singing “When Irish Eyes are Smiling” to the tune of “Take me Back to Sorrento.” But that’s just a rumor…
What isn’t a rumor is how important it is to come. C’mon, we all have excuses. Maybe we’re busy, maybe we’re a bit shy (like me…), but two very important things cross my mind here: don’t you think it’s time that we see some NEW faces at these events? Hey, for those who go all the time, we love each other’s company, of course, but we also should be extending ourselves to those who usually don’t participate. Invite someone!!! We need volunteers for these events to help prepare, serve, and clean up, (please see Lee Lagor or Steve Cavallo, we’ll give you their numbers if you ask…), and we need participants. In other words, we need Professional Eaters to come and have a Good Time. It’s really not about the food, nor is it about raising money. It’s about building community. Without community, we’re just going to shrivel up and fade away. Do we want that as our legacy? I remember when I was a child, we’d have Communion Breakfasts and the church hall was packed; you couldn’t get a seat. Now, it’s hard to pry ourselves away from our TV sets and our video games. Times have changed, but community-building must be a perennial, timeless endeavor. Please, if you haven’t been coming to these events, give your kids, or yourselves, the gift of seeing what a good old-fashioned Communion Breakfast (or Fish Bake) is all about: please come, we really want you there, we really want to get to know you better!
And in the spirit of community-building, I’ve asked our Parish Council, headed by Joann Wirth, to sponsor our first Town Meeting on Wednesday, February 11th. I’m stressing community and participation. The Town Meeting in effect deputizes every member of St. Patrick’s as an adjunct member of our Parish Council. It works like this: we’ll keep asking you to write your concerns, questions, and even problems and gripes on those three-by-five cards we’ll keep in the pews. Take one home if you wish. Then, put them into the suggestion box or collection basket. Every single suggestion will be taken very seriously. These will feed the first part of the Town Meeting, where written questions will be considered, read aloud, and discussed. Then, if time permits, the floor will be opened for questions and comments from the floor. Please, if you have something to say, don’t just chatter in the parking lot about what you like or don’t like, bring it to the Town Meeting. In the interest of spontaneity, the clergy and staff will not be there, just the representatives of the Parish Council. That will in turn feed the ‘regular’ Parish Council’s agenda, and with your help, we’re going to try to get some very important and very good things done. Thanks!

Well folks, we all prayed that 2009 would be a better year than 2008 turned out to be. So far, it seems to me that it’s snowed so much that Bridgeport might be mistaken for the Himalayas (well, not quite…). But my goodness, we’ve gotten enough white stuff to last us for years. I should know. It costs $450 each time the parking lot is plowed, and an extra couple of hundred for plowing more than 4 inches, and we’ve already paid out more than $4,000, just for plowing. And of course, on snowy days, people can’t make it in to Mass, so we get a “double whammy”: high maintenance costs and low income. Please, if you get snowed out, please remember that we still have to pay our bills.
As the year closes, I think it is important to remember and thank those who have helped make this year a success. This has been a hard year, financially for you and for our parish. That’s why the Spirit of Christmas is so important and why faithful Christians can be joyous even if the economic indicators show bad times ahead. Christians, while living in the world, are called to be not of the world, and we know that economic booms and busts are just part of living on this planet. On the other hand, keeping one’s earthly life in perspective as a temporary situation while looking forward to life eternal is the entire message of Jesus Christ.
Last week, I was appalled to see the news item on the TV which described the trampling death of a Walmart security employee. In case you haven’t heard, a young fellow hired to do security work for the Christmas season found himself with the unenviable task of having to open the doors of the Long Island store at some ridiculously early time (4am, 5am, what’s that all about??) and was met with an onrush of shoppers who physically broke down the doors as soon as he turned the key and trampled this unfortunate person to death. The police arrived and cordoned off the entryway, and then proceeded to close the store, as it was now a crime scene. As the shoppers were being herded out, (herded is a good word for people who had acted like animals…) many complained that it ‘wasn’t fair’ that they had to leave, as they had been waiting for hours. Poor entitled persons were upset about being deprived of their right to shop, I guess.
I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Since I was a child, it has been one of my favorite holidays. Oh that turkey mom would masterfully cook!
I feel sorry for Roman Catholics who make their living in the financial professions, especially if they are also clergy, like our deacons. No, I’m not talking about the economy, I’m talking about the calendars they have to keep track of. First, there’s the ‘regular’ calendar, January 1st through December 31st. Then there’s the ‘fiscal’ calendar, July 1st through June 30th (I think…). I suppose there’s a reason for starting the year when it’s half-over for the rest of us, but why is a mystery to me. Finally, there’s the liturgical calendar, which begins on the first Sunday of Advent, in just one week hence.